A lot of people don’t know that you get elevated, you start working on yourself and you get better, you know, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. A lot of people don’t know that X has come back because they think you’re doing better without them. X is will come back because they think that just don’t want a minute and they lost that control. So this video pretty much it’s gonna cover why they come back besides reasons I just explain. And X’s will come back because it’s a form of control. I want to see they can still, and if you let you, they still control you. They want to see that if you’re still attached, you still care about. And a lot of exes, they will see you’ll still do the things that you were doing before for them, you have to be careful for stuff like this, okay? Because X is, that’s all they want to come back for. My role of thumb, if an X comes back, gotta, it’s up to you if you want to take them back. But just think, depending on where you are in the process of getting over them or right now you could be grieving, you know, you could be sad. You could be depressed because you don’t have that person anymore. But in the process, you need to figure out what went wrong in the relationship and figure out what you could have did better in the relationship. Okay? And I’m not talking about figuring it out and then going back to them figuring out what went wrong, what you did wrong, and then going back to them.
Every relationship, you have to understand, is a learning experience. Every relationship is a learning experience for what you can improve yourself on for the next relationship, for that next person that’s gonna come along. Okay, you don’t want to sit here and just, you know, stress out about it and be like, well, if I change this, I change that, screw that.
Okay, what’s done is done. You need to move on. And if you moved on, and that person, that X is coming back, you need to just think about how far in the process along are you in getting over them, okay? Because if you really attach to that person, I would highly suggest not going back. Because if you guys break up, it’s gonna start that cycle all over again. And just look at how far you’ve come since the breakup. Okay? And so you have to think about that. What did you do start the process of getting over them? You know, you have to think about things like this, okay? And so sometimes it can work. If you go back how much both of you guys communicated with each other during a relationship can be a one sided thing, okay? You have to understand this. A relationship is a two sided pretty much thing, okay? You can’t just expect something out of somebody and they’re not giving it to you or, you know, but you have to also recognize you can’t be selfish in a relationship. If you expect everything, you’re not gonna get it. Okay? And I’m willing to bet if somebody watching this has somebody that you know is head over heels for them, you’re probably not really into that person to begin with, you know, and that’s the thing. You have to understand that there’s plenty of people out here that mess around with people that they’re not really into. They just use them for attention, for time.
But the thing is that, you know, you have to think about the person that you’re dealing. You have to think about a person that you broke up with or, you know, that you’re on a break with or whatever the situation, it dies. And girls, if you’re listening to this, you have to get over that person, okay? It’s imperative that you get over that person and move on. But you need to work on yourself. Okay? The biggest thing I always stress on this channel is working on yourself, because everything else will line up when you work on yourself. You have to understand that things will line up. You’ll get that job you want. You know, you’ll get that person you want in your life to come around, okay? You’ll meet those people. So you have to understand that working on yourself is the best thing. Because when you work on yourself, you get your confidence and your ex probably recognizes that you were probably doing things or trying to track them back. You were try, probably trying to, you know, without subconsciously knowing it. You know, when we’re in a breakup, a lot of times we do things to try and attract the other person. And they can feel it, they can sense it, you know. But if you’re not doing those things anymore, when you finally feel like you’re like, okay, I’m over this person. I’m finally over this person, I’m gonna move on. And you actually really feel it. That’s when they wanna come back.