If you want a traditional wife, then be a traditional man. You cannot ask for wifey privileges if you don’t have stay at home wifey money. You want me to clean the kitchen? I’m happy to clean the kitchen. If I get to wake up at 10, I get to clean the kitchen, I get to lounge by the pool. And then you come home at night like, sure, no problem. But if I’m waking up at the crack of dawn with you, we’re both going to our two very demanding jobs and then coming home. Don’t ask me for anything you’re not willing to do.