It takes a lot to be a father and a mother to kids. What does that mean? You gotta be present. You gotta show up, gotta take care of them. And no matter if the relationship was good or bad, you gotta take care of that other person. As a man, at least, whether I get along with you or not, I gotta take care of you. You’re. You’re the mother to my kids. That’s the mother your kids only know. And you gotta make sure they’re all good. If all men thought that way, it would be a perfect world. I mean, why do you think there’s so many absent dads then? Because there’s a lot. I think maybe just an emotional attachment, what everybody was taught. I was raised by a present father who loved and supported. Miss some areas cause he never had that. But one thing that he never missed was providing for us. Like my attachment to my kids is. Is like no other. I fell in love once again in life. I didn’t know what this type of love was until I see my kids. So I. I was able to hold my kids in my hand, the first, for the very first time. It’s a different type of love. It’s a different type of commitment, different type of attachment. The world can be falling apart, but I’m gonna go get my kids no matter what happens. Almost dead. It’s all good. I I Gotta go get mine. There’s some that just don’t have it. Because why never? Maybe they didn’t even have the attachment with the person.