Sometimes men also don’t want to be put on the spot over. I mean, he cheated in 1999, 2000 and seven, 2018. But now he’s always being reminded about the things he did in the past. The past can’t be changed. Maybe you can. Do I have this saying, make love not war. You hear me? As in be more loving. So, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha. So if you put your efforts in bringing out the best in someone, you’ll never get to the point where you have to go through their phone hot nighty.