one thing that we’re not doing on my page at least is telling other people how to spend their money the point of having a budget and having money goals is to be able to decide what you value and what you wanna spend money on and where you wanna cut for me I work really hard to make birthdays a priority in my budget because I have a December birthday and my birthday seems to always be the birthday that just like isn’t a priority because December such a busy month everyone’s broke everyone’s busy everyone’s tired in December so when I do birthdays for other people I go big you go look at this comment you’ll see the tracker where I like show what I spent all month and my son’s birthday is at the beginning of August he’s four and we celebrated his birthday one day the next day we did all the shopping for his birthday and then the last day we was his birthday party so we spent some money there so it’s three days in a row of spending money but it was one birthday I also did two videos about how much I spent on his birthday and I was under budget second birthday on my calendar is someone I have been friends with for eight years we have been through it all and I was actually able to celebrate her birthday so I just sent her money however the most important part of this conversation is that in a budget when you are budgeting you get to decide what you spend money on and what you don’t like there are plenty of things that I cut and I have multiple videos about the things that I’ve cut from my budget in order to prioritize the things that I don’t cut