Oh, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. You are being gaslit out of your mind, my friend. Oh, let me be, like, super clear. You can’t. He is choosing to be offended, period. Hmm. He’s either choosing to be offended by what you say. He’s choosing to be offended by going back in and back in and back into the same conversations, and he’s choosing to. Or he’s choosing to be offended by not giving you clues as to why what you say hurts him.