there are five questions I would ask myself before moving in with a significant other especially if living with a partner is the last checkmark before legally partnering for the rest of your life No. 1 what are my goals five to 10 years down the road what does my dream lifestyle look like and included in this what does legacy look like for me number two what are my day to day non negotiable habits what values do those habits connect to No. 3 how do I hope to discuss conflict what are my communication patterns number four how do I expect to build emotional vulnerability with a partner what tools do we need in our toolkit 5 how can my partner support my dreams and goals what does that look like on a day to day oh based on evidence from the Gottman Institute and I would 10 out of 10 recommend checking it out especially if you’re in this phase of your life where you’re thinking about it with all girl who wants this beautiful life for yourself you can do it all but be really intentional with every action