You will be more impressed if they’re able to tell you what they’re working on in life and what they might be trying to figure out and they’re moments of anxiety or stress that comes through their experiences but at the same time they know what they want they know where they’re going and they’re okay with it all and they’re excited for things to unfold versus someone who is speaking about their aspirations and they’re just masking and pretending everything is always okay. You can feel that within people that true confidence is actually our ability to be vulnerable about our emotions but in a in a honed way. We want to watch out for the superiority and inferiority imbalances, but it’s our ability to embrace and allow all emotions and it this is connected to what we were saying earlier our ability to accept emotions become intimate with our energy but stay kind of objective at the same time.