Fairness and Love: Exploring the Contents of My Prenup and My Purse

What’s in my prenup and in my purse. So for our prenup, we went fifty fifty on everything that we brought to the marriage. Fifty fifty on everything we’d earned during the marriage. And the only exception was a 100% carve out of the equity in my business. I built your rich BFF independently. So if we were to ever separate, I wouldn’t get to put his work experience on my resume. So why should he? And the reason our prenup is set this way is because for the first five years of our relationship, Boo meaningfully out earned me like 2 3 x some years. And he pay for more of our vacations, our rent, our meals. And he never once made me feel less than for making less than. But because he covered more of our expenses, I was able to save more, invest more, and put more into the down payment on our home. So. So I had a lot more assets, but only because of him. And I wanted to make sure things were fair, especially now that I make more money. And that’s the whole point of a prenuptial. Making joint financial decisions that make sense for your relationship. Because it’s the most loving thing you can do.