so I came across this video and this young woman said someone said that provider men are more controlling you damn right they are see women used to say they wanted a man who was ambitious they wanted a man who has something going for himself they wanted a man who was a high earner and then that sounded too greedy so they changed it to I want a provider and a protector but once women figured out that Protection comes with rules a fits of Protection things that you can and cannot do then he dropped the Protection and now you will hear women say oh I’m looking for a provider let me tell you what they’re really saying when they’re talking about they want just a provider and not a provider and protector they were saying I want a man that will give me money and let me do whatever the hell that I wanna do I want a man that will pay for my lifestyles a lifestyle and have no expectations of me other than some boom boom every now and then that’s not a provider protector mail that’s someone that’s paying you to go away you’re basically being paid like a 3:04 is paid so you gotta understand if you’re gonna get my Protection and my provision or my provision automatically comes with my Protection package it’s a bundle just like y’all say you and your kid come as a package well my provision and my Protection come as a package and for my provision there are things that you can and cannot do no you can’t go on girls trips and I provide everything no you can’t talk to me crazy and I provide everything no you can’t be letting every other guy hit it and I provide everything yes I expect that when I come over to your house that you will cook me a meal because I provide everything yes I expect that you will help me in my endeavors and inspire me because I provided everything provision comes with expectation