Men work hard. Oh, every time a man goes to his in laws to be’s house, what they ask him first out is what do you do? How long have you done it for? What’s your plan for the future? The question they ask you tells you what they expect of you. There are some relationship that people enter because there’s no money. If they are stable financially, they will not even give such relationship suggestion a thought at all. Men work hard. Oh, there are some relationship that people consider because they are broke. When you are hungry, you eat anything. Don’t negotiate relationship on a non negotiable. You will negotiate for nonsense. Either you are a lady or a man. You must build your financial self