Three signs that somebody shouldn’t be in your life. No. 1. You find yourself feeling a need to justify yourself to them all the time. Whenever you say something, you feel a need to explain it because just you feeling it isn’t enough for them. And number two, they encourage you to indulge in your bad habits, even if it’s light hearted. Saying things like you could just have one, you could just take one day off. You don’t always have to be so stuck up. Somebody who supported you just wouldn’t say those things. And I bet you could guess the third one cause I must have said it about 1,000 times. If they don’t make an effort to see you, don’t make an effort to see them.