This is how you gonna become the black cat. Do have men bend over backwards for you? Let them eat out of the palm of your head. Be the main character of the story and make heads turn wherever you go.
No. 1, and this is the most important part. This is where you lay the foundation, alright? Lean and listen to me. You have to have standards in certain expectations. The higher the expectations and the more unrealistic, the better.
Example, let’s say you’ve been seeing each other for a little while and you know there’s connection building and he’s calling you and he wants to take your for coffee date. Be smart, play dumb and simply tell him, oh, I thought we going on a date. He’s gonna be like, well, yeah, I wanna take you out for coffee. That’s when you become inconvenient. Oh, I don’t go for coffee dates. By his reaction, you gonna know if this is a week. Feminine, insecure man that wants to compete with you on a spot on the pedestrian or if he can let you stay there and let you shine, because option No. 1, he’s gonna be okay with you being inconvenient because he’s trying to date you. You are the queen. You are the prize. You are the woman on the pedestal.
So if he then feels that you declining a coffee date is too inconvenient, too hard for him to handle, there’s your answer. Not the right man for you anyway. You cut your losses early. A true masculine man will not ever look at using convenient.
He would say, oh, no worries, I’m sorry about that. Which restaurant would you like to be taken to? Or let’s say using the example of the law of Assumption, it’s Friday evening, you know, you’re gonna go for date night, but you also know human hasn’t really made any plans yet. He’s just telling you to come over to his place, dot, dot, dot, instead of complaining about it, instead of being angry about it, be all dressed up, put on your makeup, put on your perfume. Where the most beautiful clothes were, high heels, sit in the Uber on the way to his place and send him a message or call him and tell him I am so excited for this beautiful restaurant you’re going to take me. I’m so appreciative of this because we haven’t done this in a while. I’m so grateful for you taking the time booking this beautiful restaurant for us. You know well that he didn’t book anything. But you’re not losing your cool. You’re not losing your spot on the pedestrian. You remain the prize. And you walking into his house looking like the price. Also, after you made that law of Assumption phone call, he’s going to feel like an . He’s not gonna feel man enough for you. Now he’s going to compete with his own. Eager to prove to you that he is worthy of being by your side, that he’s all of a sudden gonna dress up and takes you out to the beautiful five star restaurant as you deserve.
You have all the power. They wanna date you. They wanna see you, they wanna be with you. They wanna keep you happy in their relationship. It’s their job. So let them work for it, right? Follow and comment for a part 2. And I’ll give you a step by step list on how to become and stay in your blackhead energy.