Hey, moms, do you know the secret to raising calm, cooperative kids who don’t throw a million tantrums every day? It’s definitely not trying to figure out which kind of consequence your kid is actually gonna care about. And it’s not reward system, sticker charts, or check class. It’s not fighting with your partner over which gentle parenting technique is the right one. And it’s also not trying to say calm and collected all the time, which is impossible anyways. All of those tools can be effective, but they really miss the Mark when it comes to empowering your little one to overcome constant fits, tantrums and meltdowns.
The problem with these tactics is that they don’t prioritize co regulation or even cooperation. Because of that, none of these tactics have the ability to eliminate the emotional meltdowns that your child is having. You’re gonna continue to struggle. Every few weeks, you’re gonna be back at the drawing board trying to figure out what is the next thing that’s gonna get my child to calm it down. If you never prioritize co regulation and cooperation, you’re not ever gonna get there. And that is exhausting.
That is why my mom and I came together. We are a double PhD, mother, dad, or team, and we’ve got 55+ last years of combined experience in the field. We put our brains, our research together to come up with a method that virtually guarantees that we can get your child to cooperation, to calm in 90 days or less. I know that sounds completely crazy, but since we started teaching this method over 20 years ago to thousands of moms, we’ve been featured by the Today Day Show, ABC, Mister Chazz’s podcast, Scary Mommy. Wanna know what it is? It’s called guiding cooperation. The reason it works so well is grounded in corregulation, and it focuses on using your relationship with your child in order to nurture and support cooperation. Ample research shows that when we get reactive, yelling, screaming, bargaining, pleading, children also learn to be reactive. If hating, yelling, lying, tons of research shows that children actually need to experience their adults attuned compassionate response to their behavior again and again. That is, in fact, what allows for good brain and nervous system development.
But if no one did this for you, even if you are 100% on board with the idea, the theory of gentle parenting, it is almost impossible to know what to do or say when things get tough. I’m talking about when you got two kids fighting over a purple spoon and they’re going at it and you only have one purple spoon. Or when your kid says, I hate you and I don’t even wanna be your sister again, what do you do? That is exactly what I’m gonna teach you inside of guiding cooperation.
Look, I know what it feels like to be constantly embarrassed by your kids outburst, to feel hopeless as a mom, to just be at the end of your road. Like I have tried every thing. It does not have to be that way. You are not a bad parent. You just haven’t been shown a way to parent that addresses the unique needs and challenges of parenting kids today. So here’s what I want you to do. Click on this ad, DM me the word parent.
I will respond ASAP with some more information about how this method is changing the lives of families around the world and how it can work for your family. Also, you can be like Meredith. She went from wanting to smash her child’s iPad because we have two hour long meltdowns to get him off of it to calmly, compassily transitioning him off of it in two minutes or less.
In 12 weeks, you can be like Sonya, who came to me being like, I’m so confused. I’m reflecting back my child’s feelings when they’re melting down. But that seems like it’s making it worse. She went from understanding what her child actually needs in order to transition through the daily routine without meltdowns, also without feeling validations. In 12 weeks, even though her husband was like, this is never gonna, I promise you do not have to do this alone. And these tantrums can be fixed. All you have to do is DM me the word parent, and I will personally show you how.