Reality Check: Why Your Standards Might Be Keeping You Single

Bro, you don’t even deserve an attractive woman. Like, let’s think about it. The reason why you’re probably single for more than a year or years on in, it’s because you’re just too picky. You’ve allowed social media and reality TV to skew your perception of what you deserve as a man. But the issue is you’re just an average guy. So if you’re an average guy only going after really attractive women, you have to do a reality check.

Attractive women are usually going at their higher status men or men who are equally attractive. You see, dating is like a marketplace where people are constantly placing bids on one another. And women are constantly trying to place the right bid to make sure they get the right option long term. In fact, most women usually go a few points higher than what they perceive themselves to be due to something called hypergamy, meaning their innate will to want to date a man of higher status than them.

So here’s what you can do. You can either lower your standards, which I highly recommend you do. I mean, 6,7,6 aren’t that bad, bro. Going out to the IG model types all the time is just really gonna bring you a lot of heartache. Anyway, second option, increase your SMB or your sectional market value. But first, you gotta know what it is. So that’s why I created a free calculator. If you go to the link in my bio, you’ll get access to my free SMB calculator for free.