so sick and tired of this conversation around going no contact
and how the children that are setting boundaries
and going no contact with their families
are the problem
and they’re the ones that are destroying the family and ripping families apart
it’s absolutely insane
so as a 33 year old who’s been married for 10 years with two children
and a birth mom of a teenager
who has had a very successful
happy prosperous life after going no contact with her family
and my husband who’s also 33
who’s incredibly successful and wonderful
also went no contact with his family
which means we are completely no contact with our in laws as well
we have no family on either side
in our direct families we are no contact
ask me ask me whatever the fuck you wanna ask me
let me answer your questions
I will be so honest and real with you
because I don’t understand how we can have this narrative in this tone
that it’s the child that setting the boundaries from the toxic parent
that they’re the problem I can’t
I’m sorry I can’t do it anymore
I really don’t give a fuck
cause my decision was made and I feel great about my decision
it comes with negatives there is a downside
but for the most part we are so at peace with our decision
and I have no problem explaining it or speaking about it
or talking about it or sharing about it
if it’s gonna help you set boundaries and make a decision
help prevent you from going no contact with your family
or helping your parents who don’t understand understand
that was a little aggressive
but you you can get my point
ask me anything we’re completely no contact
my in laws were so toxic
I have never ever talked about it in detail on the internet
we’re living it it’s not some dumb joke
it’s not some our feelings were hurt
so we wanna hurt your feelings back
we have children involved in this
these are lifelong decisions that can affect so much more than us ahead
ask me all your questions about going no contact and I’ll answer them